When BA pilot
James Heather fell head-first onto a marble floor, doctors feared he would die
and then never walk or talk again. But sixteen years on, James has managed to
rebuild his life by learning to do everything again. He told his Inspirational
tale to ADAM COURTNEY.
'Walking miracle'
is an often used cliché, but never has it been more apt then when describing
Fulham man James Heather.
He shouldn't even
be alive, let alone be able to walk and talk, after an accident in a Paris hotel
left his brain so crushed that doctors were forced to remove part of his skull
and store it in his abdomen to keep the bone marrow healthy.
But in an
inspirational tale of determination and defiance of medical opinion, James has
rebuilt his life and now, amazingly, took on an active role as a volunteer
fundraiser with the Hammersmith and Fulham Action on Disability (HAFAD) for 8 years,2006 - 2014.
Now 42, James was
a first officer for BA when the accident happened on December 28, 2002.
Thinking he was on the ground floor of the hotel, he jumped over a banister
unaware of an 18ft drop on to a marble floor and fell on to it head-first.
Skin and hair was
all that separated his brain from the open air for three months after his skull
was removed to ease swelling on his brain. He was in a coma for six weeks and
didn't leave France until his skull was reattached.
"My parents
were preparing for the worst," he says. "The doctors told them I
might not make it through the night and then that I'd never leave a wheelchair.
"And when I
did wake up I was basically a baby again, I had to learn to do everything
again."
At the time of the
accident, James was the archetypal pilot: suave, charming and with an eye for
the ladies.
A love of the good
life was one of the main reasons he left a career in recruitment, and it didn't
him long to develop a fondness for BA's social scene.
"It was never
a major ambition to be a pilot but I could fly before I could drive, which was
always a good chat up line for the girls.
"The hours
weren't great but I got to go to all these great cities and I loved it. I was
quite charming and used to enjoy going out with the stewardesses."
It was this
extroverted streak that would ultimately change his life forever. He'd flown to
Paris in the afternoon with a friend in the jump seat and, not due to return to
Heathrow until the following day, arranged a night out with two stewardesses.
As the foursome
went to leave their hotel for dinner, James, thinking they were on the ground
floor, decided to jump over a banister to, in his words, show off.
After the months
in hospital in Paris, he spent 3 months in Charing Cross hospital, then there
was nearly a year in Northwick Park Hospital in Harrow and the Haberdashers
House at the Royal Hospital of Neuro Disability in Putney, before he finally
returned home in June 2004.
His progress since
then has been relentless and truly inspirational. In January, 2011, hours of
rehabilitation have allowed him to walk almost normally, and, while his speech
is quiet but understandable, and his memory slightly erratic, he is able to
hold good conversation and is almost totally independent.
Amazingly, he has
even taken to the skies again in a propeller plane and controlled the landing.
His quest to
improve will not stop and he refuses to put a limit on what he can achieve.
"Thankfully
my parents never told me what the doctors said, and I try not to listen to
medics now because of that.
"I remember
taking my first steps: I stumbled like I was drunk and only walked about three
metres but it was an amazing feeling and ever since then I've thought the sky
is the limit.
"There are a
lot of things I want to improve on – I can't really crack jokes because I can't
talk quickly enough and I'd like to be able to carry things with my right hand
while I'm walking, especially on the stairs, and to drink while I'm on the
move. Also it's difficult for me to talk in a group when there is background
noise.
"It is hard
but it's getting less and less so."
The lack of
bitterness or regret from James is extraordinary. There's no hankering after
his former life, no railing at the cruelty of it all; just an unwavering
determination to live the second half of his existence as a better person.
"I'm so much
more chilled out now. Before, everything had to be done ASAP and I was inconsiderate.
I guess I was always positive but I probably made people who I didn't like feel
pretty insignificant.
"I don't miss
what I had because I'm not trying to be that person anymore. I've just got a
lust for life again because I was so close to losing it."
His attitude has
been shaped significantly by AOD (action on disability) and has returned the favour by supporting colleague James Coke in his loyalty card project.
They hope the card
will help raise awareness and improve access for the disabled in H&F, while
giving discounts to members and trade to business. James has helped lobby more
than 270 firms to join the scheme in Fulham alone.
"HAFAD has
helped me a lot, it's somewhere safe, productive and positive for disabled
people to go and we hope this card can make a massive difference."
Contact
07801 966 514
Jamesdh_35@hotmail.com